man i came here hoping to find answers,the only answer i found is  there isnt any answers and dont sound like theres much hope,guess the  good life is gone forever.you know all the miracle surgeries doctors  perform ,heart,sex change,heck they can even re atatch amputated  limbs, looks like they could do more to cure this problem.i dont  think they do enough research on this subject,insurances try to avoid  paying.funding seems to be hard no pun intended to  get,yet this has  a very real impact on our mental and physical aspects,it deminishes  the quality of life greatly.i hate the fact that my life is over at  45,i am bascily dead at 45,at least as far as my sex or love life is  concerned.woman just arnt goin to understand or tollerate the  inconvienience,they want spontanious,heated,hard,they also get in  there head if your taking a pill to get an erection,its not them that  gets you turned on its the pill.they also dont kid yourselves loose  respect for you as man.they cant brag to thier girl friends how good  thier man is in bed anymore.well you all know.yeah im freaking  out.but the real truth is this is only going to get worse.it will  never get better.my as well pull the damn trigger and get it over  with.thanks for letting me pound this out.